I was inspired by a surprisingly quiet post I saw in a business group recently to write a series on this topic because there really are so many misconceptions out there today about the VA industry.

MYTH #1: Using “Virtual Assistant” as a job title is helpful to anyone.

The reality is: Virtual Assistance is an industry.  The days of it being used as a descriptive job title ended many, many years ago.

Reason: It doesn’t do anything to help the target audience understand how we can help.  ALEXA, and SIRI are also referred to as “a virtual assistant”, and there are even AI Platforms that don’t involve a human at all for the most part.  As a Professional Virtual Service Provider,  being lumped in with that helps no-one.  We are not the same thing at all.

When the industry was first formed (long before Y2K), it was Admin and Executive Assistants offering services remotely as businesses themselves. (For a blog/infographic on the first 25 years click here)  The birth of the industry offered businesses (large and small) options for having part-time admin support without the cost of hiring a full-time employee. 

On the flip side – it offered the VA options for juggling work-home life, raising children while working, and simple overall FLEXIBILITY.  Post-2000 (and even more so, post-2020) Virtual Assistance encompasses hundreds of potential service offerings.  And starting a business in this industry is even more focused on flexibility, working from anywhere, the ability to pivot, and the individuality of that service provider/team.

I had my first VA business in 1995.  Shortly before my 2nd anniversary, I was recruited by a client as a full-time employee and my business was put on hold.  When I returned in 2009, it was a very different industry from the one I’d left. It had grown exponentially – and it had a name that people were beginning to recognize. Technology meant the potential service offerings were wide open and constantly evolving.  It wasn’t just admin support anymore!  So my relaunch offered admin support very briefly, while I invested in some additional training to move it closer to the place it is today.

If you are seeking someone offering services virtually – you need to know what you need, and specifically ask for it.  Do not just ask for “a VA”.  I promise – you will either grab the first person that looks good on paper out of overwhelm, waste far too much time going through the hundreds of responses via a plethora of methods, or give up entirely out of total frustration.

If you are offering services virtually – whether they are admin-based, technical, design, or management – whatever it is you choose to offer be clear for your audience how your business is the support they seek. Saying you are “a VA” is NOT enough.

The clearer each side can be, the more time and frustration saved for all.

Here are some additional resources on this subject:


MYTH #2: There is a ‘Standard Rate’ for Virtual Assistance.

Reality: That couldn’t be further from the truth.  It’s a contractor/client relationship and as such, rates will vary depending on a number of factors.

  • The service being offered. Some require investment in continuing training/education.
  • Experience – years of experience typically = expertise. Expertise provides tremendous value.
  • Some require professional memberships or licenses to be able to offer the service at all independently.  (i.e. Bookkeepers in the UK need to be a member of their local professional association. Or some US states require you to be a licensed realtor to carry out transaction coordination.)
  • Costs involved in delivering the service – this extends to things like data protection measures, cyber security measures and liability insurance to protect themselves and their clients, as well as the tools themselves
  • Service provider’s self-employed income tax burden
  • Location – cost of living can impact how the service provider sets their rates.

There are a number of things that can be safely outsourced outside of the country.  But there are others you really should think very carefully before you do.  For the simple reason – we are independent contractors/businesses ourselves vs an employee.  Employees are typically covered by their employer’s business insurance for Errors & Omissions – but contractors in most cases are not.  As the client – you want to ensure that any contractor you work with has the right systems in place to protect you and your business in the event of a worst-case scenario.  Because let’s face it, the last thing you want to discover is you are out of pocket due to someone else’s mistake and left with zero recourse to recoup those losses.  

Then there’s the privacy/data breach possibility factor.  Not a fun discussion – but a very important one.  Should you be outsourcing out of country or does it include data/personal info that is protected by privacy laws?

This isn’t just about trust – sometimes the worst-case scenario that occurs is completely outside of anyone’s control.

Here are some resources on this topic:

Here is a great podcast on this subject by a VA Industry veteran – Lyn Prowse Bishop of the Virtual Business Show.

Myth #3: There is a “Unicorn Virtual Assistant” that does ALL the things, and does them well.

Reality: There is no such thing as the “VA unicorn”.

In a dedicated assistant role, working part or full-time for one business, the “unicorn” absolutely exists.  In my corporate days, I (and many of my colleagues) were known for having a wide range of skills, and we loved the challenge of learning something new on the job.  But learning on the job (as an employee) doesn’t have the liability learning on the job as an independent contractor does.

In the Virtual Assistant industry, because we are independent contractors, juggling multiple clients with differing needs is challenging enough. Trying to be everything to everyone at the exact same time would be beyond unmanageable.  And inevitably the result will be disillusioned clients with unmet needs.

The “Unicorn VA” is probably a whole lot closer to a multi-VA team or agency vs one single person, unless as stated before they are dedicated to your business and your business only (which isn’t a VA by definition).


  • There are different levels of liability for the services our industry provides.  You do not want someone handling the social media management or marketing, when they are only qualified for tasks such as invoicing, data entry and customer service support. (My liability insurance would have increased substantially had I added SM management to my services.) Liability aside, Independent contractors ethically should already know how to offer the services they provide.
  • In some cases, training and certification is required to offer services commercially vs as an employee.  i.e. in some jurisdictions to offer bookkeeping as an independent – you need to be licensed and registered with their local governing body or association.
  • The cost of a Virtual Service Provider’s services can vary greatly by the service being provided among other things (see Myth #2).  You don’t want to be paying premium rates for basic admin, and the service provider certainly doesn’t want to be charging low rates for premium services.

And let’s face it – if the “Unicorn” existed – there would never be a need to outsource anything, right? Because you would already be doing it ALL yourself.   

Isn’t not wanting to be the “unicorn” yourself the reason why you started outsourcing projects and tasks in the first place? 

So why would you now expect this from another single individual?  Especially when they are not dedicated full-time to your business……

Myth #4: Working with a VA is exactly the same as having an employee – only without the tax burden and employment laws.

Reality: The main thing to clarify here is there are clear differences between an employee and contractor role. And these differences are defined by each individual country’s tax authority/labour laws. 

In-the-know service providers do not want to take on the additional burden of self-employment taxes when they are really an employee.  Employment usually includes perks like a lower tax burden and other benefits such as pensions, medical benefits, sick pay and paid time off.

Every business seeking outside help, should be mindful of not getting themselves into a misclassified employee situation.  When a contractor is later deemed by these authorities to actually be an employee it is such a mess for everyone involved.  And of special note – when that employee is in another country than the business who hired – BOTH sides tend to get involved when the red flags pop up.

The main question that everyone has to ask themselves is: Who has control in this relationship?


  1. Who issued the contract?
  2. Who decided the rate that would be charged by/paid to the Virtual Service Provider?
  3. Who decides when payment is made to the service provider?
  4. Who set the terms and conditions in the relationship?  And which party’s jurisdiction applies?
  5. Who set the working hours?
  6. Who is responsible for training (initial and ongoing), and software/equipment costs?
  7. Who decided the intervals that rate increases would be implemented?
  8. Is sub-contracting permitted – and who determines if that will happen?
  9. And bonus question: If your VA is in the Philippines – are you paying “13th month”?

If the answer to these questions is anything other than “the service provider” for 1-8, and it’s yes to #9……you probably want to consult a tax professional.

Common Resources – Contractor vs Employee Classification

Canada: https://www.canada.ca/content/dam/cra-arc/formspubs/pub/rc4110/rc4110-21e.pdf

UK: https://www.gov.uk/employment-status/selfemployed-contractor

Philippines Contractors vs Employees:


Note that each country provides it’s own guidance and compliance requirements, so if you are working with someone in a specific country – be sure to check the laws where they are located to ensure you are not inadvertently working with an employee when not properly registered in that jurisdiction to have one.